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36-40,
*hiannan
writes:hello every1I have a problem with my boyfriend.. 2 days ago he met a girl.. and he told me she was nice and stuff and they talk a lot now.. I got jealous and I stressed yesterday.. he told me I have nothing to be afraid because he loves me.. yeah maybe I took conclusions too early but I trust him, I just don't want him to leave me.. and I'm afraid he can start to like her. Thing is I asked him sorry after and now he is mad at me.. I text him and asked him to text me back and he doesn't :/.I told him we needed to talk today.. I want to ask him sorry.. I know he won't leave me.. he is just mad but I don't want him to be mad at me :( what cute things should I say to him? so he can stop this..thanks for the help :) ***
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reader, shiraz +, writes (19 January 2009):
i think this is a classic time for that actions speak louder than words thing! its not what you say its how you are. its hard but sometimes your guy will meet other people but if he says they are mates you have to learn to trust him if not then you could be pushing the situation together and making it something its not. its ok to have suspiscions but only raise them when you have solid facts and your really hurt. give him space (not to long obv) just time is what he needs send him one last text saying your sorry youve assumed and you regret what you did and you accept that his silence indicates he needs spac reassure him you love him and leave it at that.
he should get back to you evenually, but if not take action and ring him, later on that is give it time to pass for now. learn from this and in the future play it better! i do worry that he told you she was 'nice and they talk' becareful hes not realised your jealous and is playing on it slightly, its a cruel game but people often play it, no matter how much they love you.
dont worry! just give it time, good luck xxx
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reader, andrea83  +, writes (19 January 2009):
hi sweety you should trust him more than that cz if he dont want you to know he wont come and tell you about her but you should always be with him and dont give them the chance to be with eachother always and you should know her too
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Sorry but mature men get turned off by immature women
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): I'm afraid to say this is where the alarm bells start ringing, he obviously likes this girl enough to want to spend time talking to her and enjoys her company, and getting mad at you is just an excuse to avoid seeing or texting you, if he wanted to truly be with you he would have made an effort, time to realise he`s got interests elsewhere
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