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30-35,
*allygal100
writes:My ex cheated on me and we broke up so he got a new girl. Sometime after that though we started talking again and hed tell me how he missed me and everything and so he hooked up with me again. We did that for a while and like two weeks ago he decided it would be best to stop cheating on his girlfriend because it wasn't right to keep acting like he was. He told me that if she were to ever 'magically' disappear we could try doing us again. He said hed never tell his girlfriend because she would obviously flip but recently she found out somehow, and she talked to me about it. I told her the truth because i didnt kno how much she already knew so i didnt want to risk it? Should i have lied for him? I don't want him to be upset with me after all this, but i kno he'll blame me and not himself. We have a lot of mutual friends between all three of us actually and i just dont want anything to change but his girlfriend is really wanting to end it with him now.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 He cheated on you, then he cheated on her. Can't he keep his dick in his pants???
I don't think either of yall deserve him.
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reader, Stroller  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 He's a cheater - why should you lie for him? Why should you care whether he's upset with you? The "magically dissappear" line is about the dumbest I've ever hear, and it says you're his second-best, and he's just keeping you around for his own purposes. Forget him, and quit allowing him to fool around with you.
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