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writes: This may sound really stupid but please tell me what is wrong with me... im 16 and i keep thinking of this girl that i haven't seen for 3 month now (i have tried texting her but i get know reply) and everyday since then i have thought about her. but when i do think of her alot of things and feelings go through my mind but i just usually get depressed. What is wrong with me? Why is this happening? she never rejected me or said anything bad to me, infact we were really close but all of a sudden we just stopped seeing each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): you like her hon. i was in a similiar situation.except i would be on the girls situation. did you ever think she might not of gotten them. but nothing is wrong with you you are just still really likeing her. or maybe she changed her number just give her a call see if she answers ok?
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (31 May 2006):
 What is wrong you ask?! You like her and want her thats whats wrong with you! And when you get a feeling she doesn't feel the same way, you feel trapped and betrayed. You see, you dont need her to reject you straight up to feel rejected...you felt it the moment you guys drifted apart plus the fact that shes not replying your texts. That will explain your being depressed everytime you think of her.
Look, what you're feeling is normal. Nothing is wrong with you, if theres something wrong with you feeling this way, everyone in this website needs a psychiatrist!! Two choices here, you either move on and accept that she doesnt like you, or you try to get her to like you (thats a different matter then). Either way, its not impossible!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): Hello, you say that you have tried texting her and she hasn't replied.I would just give her a call and see if she answers. It could be that she has a new number... maybe she has lost your number ? Just give her a call and find out, at least you will have closure and you can't say you didn't try.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Dear reader,
Wild stab in the dark here - I think you are feeling depressed when you think of her because you were once so close and there was a very deep bond between the two of you. Still is, infact. She may have not rejected you, it's probably the fact that she didn't reject you that's making you feel like this. You were so close, and now you are so apart, it may even feel un-real. You had that deep connection and now you've suddenly been cut off, you feel depressed because there is still some hope there of becoming close to her again (as she didn't reject you.)I feel that you are just giving up and are depressed about what was or what could have been.
Was this any help? If not don't hesitate to contact me.
Good Luck -All The Best- and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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