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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: im having trust issues with my fiancee. he broke my trust by telling me that he'll be as a certain place but he landed up somewhere else, and so, i have problems now when he tells me that he will be here or there because of that previous lie...at times, i just really want to believe him but i cannot because he wasnt sincere for the past. everywhere i go, i let him know, so that he knows in case of emergency or if something ever bad happened that at least he can reach me. while, i feel, on the other hand, im sarting to see him as sneaky or myself just becom paranoid. whats for me to do?
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reader, eddie +, writes (14 June 2007):
Did he lie or just change his plans. If he just changed his plans and didn't bother to call in to Checkpoint Charlie (you), what's the big deal. If he made a calculated choice to lie, then you have to figure out why. Do you question everything he does?
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