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writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly..8 months now.I'm 14, hes 15.He's my first. And he's my first love. I recently moved about 30 minutes away from him due to school. So, now i can only see him in the weekends.Well i made a guy friend at school named zack. and zack who see's the way my boyfriend treats me and thinks its completely wrong and i like this guy..hes a good guy.But then my bf...its like. im feeling the same for the both of them and my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot lately..since i moved, because were used to seeing each other every other day not once or twice a week and well.. my boyfriend. last night.i asked him:"Is catherine hot? Would you date her if we broke up"and i told him to answer honestly, btw shes a girl in his class [we dont go to same schools] and he said "yes" to both..and i mean..he told me that he loves me and he cant see himself with anyone else and i really can't either. But 1) he broke my heart when he said that.2) I like zack..alot..hes respectful.My main concern is..my boyfriend and i...his family is basically my family and i'll miss that.but you know the song "face down" by red jumpsuit, thats how it kinda is...But he does care about me...and hes my best friend...and i'm just..gonna miss him..but i cant do it anymore..girls or guys..what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): well, if yer boyfriend really said that about the other girl.
He doesnt care about how yer feelings are.
and truthfully, 8 months is a long time, there must be a reason you stayed with him for that long.
you have just moved from that school, zack might be a [crush] but it isnt worth giving up on the one you love.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Why the hell did you ask him that anyways? Break up with him if you want to go out with someone else. No guts, no glory!
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Take yourself away from both boys and follow your heart, but don't act mindlessly because this new boy could seem all good just because you are missing your boyfriend and this other boy is with you alot more.
Things are going to be tough with your current boyfriend because something you are both used to (seeing alot of each other) has been taken away and it's in need of adjustment to the new situation.
May I ask how long it's been since you moved? Because it's going to be harder at first til you adjust and emotions are going to be running high which could be clouding any other thoughts and feelings you may or may not be having.
Only other thing I can say is never ask a question you don't want to know the answer too, somethings are better off not said :o)
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