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anonymous
writes:Hello!I've got a problem with a 'friend' of mineWe met each other at university (we're both studying anglistics) and get along with each other...or at least I think so. To be honest I fancy him pretty much but I suspect that he's just not that into me. We take the same courses except for a few so we regularely see each other. When we're 'alone' we easily get to talking with each other but when there are other people around he more or less 'ignores' me. Especially when he's in company with two other girls. When it comes to social networks he only adds people whom he really is friends with (as he said)...though we mail each other via one of those networks, he never added me as friend there (which he did via another).I know this all sounds extremely stupid and I really should be more mature than that but I think that there could be more-at least from my point of view.He's a bit of a nerd (like those two girls) and likes girls which are nerdy. Frankly spoken, I'm an average, boring girl. I don't want to bend over backwards for him just to get his attention...it would be of no use imho as he would not see/like me but rather someone I'm pretending to be. I just hit the end of the road and would need some advise on what to do next. Should I just bear this situation till the end of the term (I don't think that we'll see each other that often in the next one) and get over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): I would leave him alone. for him not to add you on his social network that means he is totally ignoring you and im pretty sure you want someone who can give you his attention.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 January 2011):
How about you go for broke and tell him how you feel first? Sometimes when guys like women, they get so shy they can't speak to them! We're not like guys from the romance films!
You don't know, and will never know how he feels unless you talk to him.
Go for it.
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