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writes: hi well my boyfriend knows this girl n she has his mobile number and they go to the same school and in the same class he says he hates her but she says that they talk all the time and get on and she says that he stirs up stuff about me i need help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007): Well, it could be because she want's to see your reaction, which she thinks you will start doubting your relationship with him. But keep your faith real, believe your boyfriend as you know him Inside Out, usually friend's get jealous that why must my friend have the best relationship, so why not ruin hers. Good Luck with your relationship. Trust is the 1st step to successful relationships.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (9 July 2006):
 He probably says he "hates" her, only because he's worried that you'll worry otherwise. And the other girl may be overstating the case by saying they "talk all the time". The truth is probably somewhere in the middle. I'd suggest that he gets along with her as a mate, but isn't interested in being more than friends with her.
But I can't see much point in worrying about it, whatever the truth is. If you're boyfriend is happy with you, then simply the proximity of another young woman isn't going to drag him away from you.
Remember that there will always be temptations from other girls and if you spend your life worrying that he might text/talk to/be attracted to someone else, you won't have time to scratch yourself.
If he's never given you reason to believe that he's unhappy with you, then you have to learn to trust him, and not waste your time worrying about what 'might' happen.
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