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writes:Hello,I have a problem with my husband.everytime we fight , he tell me to live his house.We are married for 2 years, and our marrige relationship is bad.I think he has someone else.What I should do , if I would live him ? It can affect my greencard ? I can't live with him anymore . He is in charge of everything and I don't have nothing here in USA. Please let me know ,what I can do ,so I won't waist my time anymore.Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 March 2010):
Call 1800 799 7233. This is the domestic helpline that the US government lists on their Violence Against Women Act paperwork. This helpline deals with abused foreign women who have been married for less than two years. The VAWA law allows such women to file a permanent residence petition in their own right and the law requires that this information is not divulged to your husband. Its confidential between you and your case worker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers .
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): G to an immigration lawyer..if hemistreats u..try to file for verbal abuse or spousal abuse..tell this all to an immigration lawyer, try going to churches since some of them offer advice on this matters, and I dont mean religious advicce, I mean that some actually have legal counselours or contacts of people that might help... if u hire a lawyer make sure its a good one dont waste your time. If he is cheating on you ro mistreating you get as much proof as you can so you cna build a strong case with your lawyers, dont be afrain you ahve your rights
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 I think that you should talk to an immigration lawyer... don't get me wrong, we're glad to help you.
Legal problems, however, are like medical problems, you need to get advice from a lawyer. You can Google lawyers in your area or go to the research desk and ask the librarian to help you find one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): remember what you said @ the time of the wedding,
(yes i will) wy this words become so heavy to carry?
i thank in a good relationship, dialogue is the key of success.
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reader, freddyfred +, writes (12 March 2010):
 not realy do u have the 10 year one then your good but if its the 2 year then u need to stay i hve the same problem but i have the 10 year and its ok for me to divorce her i just cant get any felonies hope that helps u a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): You need to contact a helpline for women in your area. Are there any friends or relatives you can go to? Have you tried to talk to your husband? His family?
Not being married to him may affect your greencard... but I don't think living somewhere else would. So try and start your own life. Get a job or use some skill which pays. Ask for help from a shelter nearby to guide you in this.
You need to not let him be incharge of everything. Read the papers. Talk to people. In a religious place, in your neighbourhood. Anywhere. Your friends and your independence can be your support anywhere. Even if you are living in the same house do things on your own so you feel in charge. And he does not have to know until you are ready to tell him. Don't depend on him. And let him see that you are ready to find your own way...
And, it is 'leave' not 'live' - live is about life. 'Waste', 'not waist' - waist is where you fasten your jeans :)
Check this site - you will find something in your area.
http://www.sawnet.org/orgns/#National
Do not hesitate to come on this board and ask more questions.
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reader, Angzw +, writes (12 March 2010):
Go to http://www.uscis.gov. This is the immigration website that gives you information on what you can do if you are married to a US citizen who is threatening your continued stay. Unfortunately this is a common problem in the US, so to help the foreign women the government has made it possible for women like you to stay if you are being abused.
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