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I don't think he regrets sincerely what he did, he is only checking that I don't tell his wife of our affair!?

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Question - (7 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *esperate_angel writes:

I am starting to move on now from my previous heartache. He's away but still contacting me asking if im alright and always reminding me that things will be alright soon. He always repeat to me that i could find much better than him and he really feel sorry for what he did was wrong and should not do that to me. But he knows what he's doing from the start. Sometimes i believe but more often no because the trust was destroyed. Im gonna leave and go back to my country this october and would not see him again. He always made me promise that i will not going to tell his wife (he's scared of divorse?)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008):

look darling he is only contacting you because, he loves you! sometimes you love 2 people at the same time. he is a jackass yes but most men are. move on, be happpy find someone new and tell him the best thing he can do for you is let you move on! if u wanna stay in the country do that dont just leave cos of him. good luck. x

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A female reader, Angle79 Cambodia +, writes (7 August 2008):

Angle79 agony auntYou should move on, forget about him and change your number my dear. The more you hear from him, the more you get hurt. He is a freak!

Stay away from him and fine someone who is single and honest. All the best wishes to you.

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

I would change your number so he canot contact you anymore, If you are trying so hard to move on from this then the calls and constant reminders are not good for you. He is making sure that you are on good terms by telling you he is sorry, That you can find someone better than him and maybe he is scared incase you get upset and contact his wife. That is a possibility hunny after all he made you promise not to say anything..He is not trustworthy anyway love he has hurt his wife and he has hurt you and he will probably in the futour hurt someone else, Ignore his calls move on and concentrate on your well being love and let him get on with whatever it is he wishes, But dont let him hurt you anymore you are worth more than this..TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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