A
female
age
36-40,
*o sick
writes:So my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. He can get me really horney and get me to the point where I REALLY want sex..and his dick inside of me...but when he does its like I dont really have much feeling down there. I have NEVER been able to orgasm from sex...not even come close. I also cannot come with him fingering me? Fignering feels better than his dick?...and I still cannot even come close to an orgams. I can however orgasm when he rubs me in a certain area that I showed him...but why is it that I almost like have no feeling on the inside down there? Not that I dont like actually having sex..its just I would rather do other things..because those feel better for me...when he obviously wants sex? And yes I have tried to rub that area when we are having sex..it just dosent work? We have tried different lubs, condoms, positions, ect? He almost feels like he cannot please me...I try and tell him its my down there but I dont think he is believeing me anymore? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Seee sex is more psycological than physical because it all starts from the brain. As long as your brain aint tuned to it, you are as good as fullfilling a routine. However their are so many people like you in the world and the good news is there are a variety of remedies.
If you have been watching too much porn, then that makes your brain too expectant and makes sex look perfect. So the solution is to gradually reduce on the amount of time you spend consuming those nude hardcore pictures and videos.
But in case u have never watched porn then its something to do with either the size of his dick or the sensitivity of your vagina. In this case try as much as possible to help him improve on the size of his tool. Otherwise see a medical doctor(gynacologist) to improve on the sensitivity of your p***y.
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