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writes:I don't really no wat to do anymore in regards to my boyfriend. Every things going great but I'm having problems myself. My really good friend went out with him last year. She's perfectly fine with me dating him (all though I learned that she still likes him) and is very happy for me. Her and my boyfriend are still friends which sometimes really bothers me. This is because she flirts with him a lot and he acts super flirtatious with him too. He's very awkward with me. But that's because he likes me a lot and doesn't really no how to handle it. Its really cute. I told him about how the way he acts with my friend bothers me and now he assures me that everything is fine and that he really likes me all the time. But wat I don't understand is that I get so angry when I see them together. I get angry at him to the point where I don't want to see his face without wanting to punch him. And when he doesn't text me I freak out. And I no he's busy but somethings still making me mad when he doesn't talk to me. Not sure wat to do :(
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (15 December 2011):
Well, first off, it was a good and mature step to tell him directly how you feel about him and your friend. Problems like these always get worse if people don't talk about them with their partner.Since you've tried talking to him without much avail, its now time to confront your friend about it. You said it yourself that she still has feelings for him, and it isn't okay for her to be flirting with him while knowing full well that he is taken. Let her know how upset its making you and if she cares about you, she'll find someone else to occupy her interest. If not, then I suggest finding a new friend who actually wants you to be happy, instead of feeding off your jealousy.
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