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writes:Hey,Well this might sound wierd but yeah..My bf wants to finger me which im fine with BUT Im worried because I get a lot of discharge and I dont want him to notice it! I dont realy know if I get more than average, but this is realy stopping me from letting him do it! I just dont know what to think. Please help! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Seriously dont worry about that. Personally, that would turn me on loads. The wetter the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, and i was refering to natural discharge...xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): everyone gets wet to a certain degree, and if it's when you are aroused (vs. normal discharge..not quite sure which one you are referring to), then he'll probably love that you are so wet because it means he's doing something right. My boyfriend loves that I get so wet when he's fingering me, so maybe yours will too. good luck!
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reader, Stroller +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Just tell him, "hey, baby, when we do this later tonight, I just want you to know that when I get hot, I get REALLY wet down there". Chances are that he'll go "woah! that's hot". Problem solved, job's a good 'un, he'll spend the next hours in delicious anticipation.If it does turn him off - unlikely - then his reaction tells you a lot about him. Any decent guy will make no big deal of it, and if he does, then you're better off without him. It's kinda hard to say here what normal is, but chances are you're no more of a squirter than most girls - you're probably just perfect and every guy loves it when he gets his girl all wet and excited. And if I'm wrong then take that label "squirter" and be proud - I would say you'll turn on far more guys with this feature than you turn off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Hmm well everyone gets discharge, you might just not realise the amount. Personally I don't get a lot, but everyones different. Even if he did notice, he should understand! He wants to go down there - if he doesn't like your discharge, then stuff him! He needs to grow up if he has such a big problem with it. Try not to be embarrassed, are you gonna let this womanly issue bother you your whole life? If he loves you, he won't mind honey. But don't rush into anything oki, if you've only just got with him a month ago or something, then maybe its a bit soon. Make sure whatever you do you're comfortable with :] good luck.
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