Boyfriend will hate me for talking with the girl he cheated with..

A female age 30-35, *allygal100 writes:

so my ex cheated on me with this girl and then we split and they started goin out. but she never knew he was with me when he was first cheating. so after the first incident they fixed things and they were good. but a couple wks ago i hooked up with him while he was with her and so then he was cheating on her. and we just swore to make sure she never found out. but somehow she did. so she calls me and she was talkin to me i really hate lying so i just told her the truth and everything that went on. she wasnt mad at me but she said she wants to break up with him now and she says shes gonna talk to him later and then get back to me. but now hes def gonna hate me forever. and she told me this was probably what i wanted anyways and thing is when i did it i thought i wanted him back but ever since we talked we both learned so much about him and i dont really know now. i still miss him sometimes but im so confused. i dont kno wat to say to him, and i KNOW for sure he'll hate me for talking to her. but i really dont think i want him back anymore and i really am sorry for what i did. i dont want him to think i tried to s*crew up their relationship by talking to her cuz i def didnt, but i do think she deserves better cuz she actually is a nice girl. but i dont kno wat to do. like i kno wat i did was wrong too, but i think i was just so upset over the first situation cuz i had him first.

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