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writes: Well the thing is...i like this guy, he sed he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend i dont know whether they would ever break up, seeing as ive never met her.This guy also has a friend and his friend likes me too and then they have another friend who i like as well.WHAT DO I DO?! :'(
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reader, sallygal100 +, writes (16 March 2008):
shes been ignoring him for 3 months and theyre still goin out ? thats odd. did he tell you this himself ? You should just make sure that thats tru before you throw yourself into that mess because guys tend to lie about stuff. but if you're confident that he likes and your feelings are mutual go for it. if you ever doubt it, even a little bit.. maybe its your head and not your heart actually trying to tell you something.
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reader, HerNameIsAlice +, writes (16 March 2008):
HerNameIsAlice is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni undertsand what you are saying...but him and his gf haven't been going very well lately, and i really like him. this might not be anything to go by but his gf has been gnoring him for the 3 months...and that's why he might ask to break up.
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reader, HerNameIsAlice +, writes (16 March 2008):
HerNameIsAlice is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni undertsand what you are saying...but him and his gf haven't been going very well lately, and i really like him. this might not be anything to go by but his gf has been ignoring him for the 3 months...and that's why he might ask to break up.
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reader, Stroller +, writes (16 March 2008):
Sleep with the "friends". Have fun, do what you want to do. If you wait on "might do"s and "maybe"s then you'll spend your life waiting.
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reader, sallygal100 +, writes (16 March 2008):
speaking as someone who is just coming out of a situation similar to this, if the guy has a girlfriend stay away from him. he'll probably want to hook up with you on the side but the truth is if he really liked you he would be with you. even if he breaks up with her for u.. do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who dumps his girl the second something a lil bit better comes along. its odd that his whole circle of friends wants you. maybe im just being skeptical but you dont want to be the girl his whole circle of friends hooked up with because you'll just turn yourself into a big joke. my advice if you really want one of them choose ONE, and make sure its not the guy with the girlfriend. or find another boy somewhere else, there are plenty to go around
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