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I don't know who to go for - my best friend or the new girl?

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Question - (14 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2007)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

HI im 14 (M) and ive never had a proper gf b4. ive had a few gfs b4 but not really much longer then a month. at the moment ive had my eyes on 2 totally different girls. 1 is 1 of my best friends who ive liked since the day i met her. the other has just kinda slowly crept into my mind but we barely know each ither. the problem is though is that my friend knows how much i love her but she doesnt see to care because she is datin sum1 called rob who is ok coz we actually get along and were pretty good m8s. yet my friend acts all flirty with me when im with her without her bf so i dunno what shes thinkin but id never let her cheat on her bf. but the other girl i barely know yet everytime i see her or she sees me we look at each other for god knows how long. its kinda like she feels the same way about me but we just dont know it. also she has more in common and is better looking but she is a year lower then me in high school. i could find out more about my mystery girl because when i go to town with 1 of my friends he knows her and where she hangs about and he gets along with her friends aswell. im really a bit confused and wondered who you think would more suit me and what not. please help me coz ma head hurts ova this. thnx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007):

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thnx dats helped me make up my mind because im no good at choosing decisions and i was really confused thnx 4 ur help

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A female reader, heartxbrokenxgurl United States +, writes (15 January 2007):

heartxbrokenxgurl agony auntid say go to the new gurl cuz ur friend has someone n maybe the new gurl u think bout doesnt give it a shot n try to get to kno her a lil better n see wut happens

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (15 January 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntI'm just throwing this out there.

I sort of like the appeal of your mystery girl. I think you ought to give it a shot. Your good friend who you like, well... she doesn't sound like the best match for you right now. She's dating someone else and she doesn't seem to really care that you like her - at least, in front of her boyfriend.

Your mystery girl sounds like she might be fun to get to know. I think you ought to give her a chance. Maybe she's a really great girl. Besides, if you're really good friends with the other girl, then she'll be around for awhile. Maybe in a few years it'll work out for you two, but for now, I'd give mystery gal a try. She sounds intriguing and SINGLE.

Give it a chance! She might just be the girl you've been waiting for.

xxIndia

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