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writes:okay so, i'm been together with this guy for atleast 8 months and we arn't dating buut we are exactly like a couple he just doesn't want to go out. He just doesn't like relationships but i understand that but then there is another guy that wants to go out with me i want a relationship soo i can do things but not feel slutty. and i like that guy also, my heart is saying go for the one you like more buut each day i like one or the other one more and i can't choose who i would want to be with everyone says the one that wants a relationship cause he goes to my school and i could see him a lot and ya but i don't want to just don't want to be mean with the guy that i have been liking for 8 months. I don't know what to do help? Reply to this Question
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 it's unfair to be with one if you like the other more.
you say you like this other huy but maybe it's only because he is offering you the relationship you want and the attention you crave. the guy you're with wants all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment issue and therefore in each way there are problems with both.
i think you need a break from both guys and then you can have a think about which guy you truely like without anything infuencing your decision.
you'll work it out but you're so young, why the hurry to grow up? there's plenty of time for relationships!
best of luck
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (18 September 2007):
 well it really is completely up 2 u you cant just pick someone just because they go to your school!
and you dont have to feel mean to the other guy youve liked for 8 months because hedoesnt want a relationship with you. he doesnt want the same things as you. you cant just wait around for him to finnaly say he wants a relationship. whos to say he will even want a relationship with you (and i dont mean that nasty but its happend to me!) if this other guy wants a relationship like you do and you like him and you know he will treat you right then go for him.
what ever you do make your decission soon as he cant wait for you either.
go with what your heart thinks
hope i helped!!!!!!!
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