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writes:One of my friends thinks I'm changing, but everyone else thinks I'm the same. She thinks I'm changing cause I'm more into guys now. But, you see, everyone is changing cause everyone is now having sex at this age! Like a lot of my friends already have and she has done a lot more things than me. She thinks I'm different, but I've been myself my whole life and I am "changing" cause I want to sleepover with this guy that I've been liking. Why can't I? Like she wants me to get with him a lot of the times. So, it's weird. But how could I tell her about how stupid this is? Everyone is going to change. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 Did you ever think her thinking you're changing is not that bad. She could be afraid for you???What is stupid is doing what everyone else has done. Just because everyone else is having sex, doesn't obligate you to do the same. Here in the US, there are many girls who just have sex for no particular reason, and some just because everyone else is doing it. Do you know what we call girls who just have sex because it's there? SLUTS. That will follow you everywhere you go. There are girls I went to school with who were that way, I'm coming up on my 20th year reunion from graduating high school. If I see pictures of those girls, the first thing I remember them for is being a SLUT.Don't fall into that trap. One thing no one can ever take away from you is who you are, but you decide who that is and how it's developed.
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Oh hun,if everyone is jumping of the roof you don't need to be among them-from what you wrote seems to me you're absolutely not mature enough to have sex...but unfortunately it's your decision only.
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