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writes: im still trying to get a boyfriend without being so desperate. im mean ive been asked out a few times, but not by the right guys.Here's a follow up. Ok, last year ive been looking up ways to suduce, flirt, all kinds of stuff with this one boy. It seemed to get his attention but he hasnt asked me out yet.(as in boyfriend and girlfriend).Last year he would give all his attention every time i would say something to him, but you know what's so weird is that in the beginning of the school year we really didnt get along, but as the year progressed this started to happen. He would find ways to touch my hands while we were on the computer, also my legs, thys, but that's it nothing else. Then one day he asked for my cell number, but i dont think he ever called of had the guts to. Now im skipping over to my eightht grade awards day. i was dressed so cute, got 2 awards , and after the y had some others things after just for eight graders. me, him and my best friend sat by each other. i wrapped my arms around his and we sat down and held hands. Then my friend came and pulled our hands apart, but she was just playing, she knew i liked him like him. But for some reason he gets nervous talking to me when im around her, but when im not around her we talk all the time. Let me skip to this year, and here's my question also. I still like him, but we have no classes together, and i only get to see him in the morning, and ive been hearing that some other girl has been trying to get with him. So should i still try to have a relationship with him or just stay good friend and just flirt and seduce for fun, or just stay regular friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Ok, understood, flirting is harmless and it is normal to have crushes on guys, but I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about him, I am sure there are other boys that like you and pay you some attention, and it is really great at your age not to limit yourself to one special boy, it's really healthier not to be too attached at your age and to be friends with a lot of "people".
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, you're right. But, I really didnt mean to use seduce(that a realy strong word), like when I say seduce, I really mean flirt, which I realize is two different words, and I should have left it out my first entry. But that's all i'm doing, i don't say nasty things, I'm actually a good girl, and shy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): So you are an over achiever, that's great, but don't you think this is going a bit far to try to seduce someone when you are a freshman in high school?
Don't you think your agressiveness is better spent hitting the books than hitting on this guy who clearly isn't ready or isn't interested in you, except perhaps for one thing?
You want power over boys, him in particular and you just want him because he is a challenge. Get over yourself and think about something else. And I'm glad you are a smart student, but you are worrisome because you are so aggressive and wanting to seduce your male peers.....that isn't the greatest asset to have you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your comments, and rythmandblues2 I am a honor student and he wasn't touching my thighs the way you probably think he was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): posts like this make crazy me! If you like him and want to his be girl...then him tell. When i was dating we used friends our to see if the mutual was interest. Or we sent a note. As in... do you me love check or yes no. If we were sitting with our around arms to each other , the anwser was yes. For it go. Or not. yours is the choice. I wish of you good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): I think an 8th grader is too young to be seducing anything, especially a young Mexican boy?
He is touching you because he thinks your easy and fast, touching your thighs at the computer? Uh UH...where are the teachers at this school.
Go take a cold shower and stop chasing boys. If a boy is interested in you he will ask for your number, call you up and ask you out to do something, this one is not intereseted in you, but if you keep offering it up, I am sure he will take you up on it at least once and then tell all of his friends about it.
Aren't you a little young to be thinking of starting a relationship. How about just having some friends of both sexes and focus on what you are supposed to be doing at school which is to learn something so you can go on to college or tech school and learn a skill that you can earn a living with as a responsible adult.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 Excuse me, but where the heck did that tag line come from? Erm?
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reader, ffogalilly  +, writes (5 October 2009):
Just go ask him, the worst thing he can say is no.
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