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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:heya, im having some problems....the first of which is that i am becoming more and more reluctant to have sex with my boyfriend of nearly a year...its not because he is becoming less and less attractive, its just that sex is. He always looks so disappointed when i say that i dont want to have sex. and i'm pretty sure he suspects me of faking pain (which i never have faked...i just have very very sensitive lower parts)how can i motivate myself to have sex with my boyfriend? he says he enjoys sex because apparently its the only way he can truly show me how much he loves me.....i think its silly and ive told him that i think it can't be the only way he can show me he loves me....but he is adamant that sex is the only way.so how can i motivate myself to have and enjoy sex with my boyfriend? ive tried a fair few things, such as ignoring any pain or trying different positions and methods..i dont want to lose him because we dont have sex . . . . . much obliged for any help given Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): If sex is painful for you (and your using lube) it's important to see a doctor asap
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