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anonymous
writes:Right here we go...Me and my boyfriend's only been together 2 and a bit monthsWe were mates before we got togetherHe's pretty much stayed with me and my two kids from we first went out ( silly I know )At first he was great I was so happy n felt like a princess I felt so lucky to have himHe always made me feel special He done the normal things in the house like tidy do dishes etc but now he does nothing and I mean nothingHe always says he does everything n goes on how he layed two carpets n tidied the garden n always goes to the shop He was on jobseekers but now brings in no money at all keeps saying hes getting work but never does so really im paying his way when I only get my benefits for myself and kidsI used to go out at the weekend with my mates and have a laugh but now cant as I have no money to do soAlso I feel like hes not attracted to me anymore he used to always compliment me n call me gorgeous or sexyWev always had a very active sex life though he cant really satisfy me in bed which I can deal with lolHe is very selfish in bed but lately its like I cant turn him on like il play with him but he wont get hard I say to him about it and he just says its coz hes not in the moodHe says he loves me but doesnt feel like it anymore I love him so much I dont know what to doHe says I cant go two hours without moaning which isnt true thats just him being daft I always tell him I love him and show that I do This morning we argued about the financial side of it and he doesnt see why im annoyed I dont know what to do im lost in it all I dont want to finish it coz I love him more than hel ever know but I just cant see this working and also I might be pregnant Can someone please help me lol Thanks everyone x
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reader, TEM  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 I think you hit the nail on the head when you wrote, "He says he loves me but doesn't feel like it anymore." As I read your post I can seen that things have been steadily going downhill. Everything was pretty good at first, but he started to slide in just about every department (financial, love, sex, housework, going out, etc.).
I think you love the person he was, but you are starting to dislike the person he has become. He changed from a great guy to someone you are unhappy with in a little over two months. Which guy do you think is the real one? Do you think he will ever be the guy you fell in love with again?
I think he was on his best behavior at first. Once he felt comfortable in your place, spending your money, and eating your food, he slacked off. You've brought it to his attention and it doesn't look like he wants to take you seriously. You haven't got that much invested in the relationship. My advice is to cut your losses here.
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