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I don't know if I like him, but some other girl is after him! What do I do?

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Question - (12 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

Im not sure if a like a guy.

He told me he liked me about a month ago, but i said i didnt know how i felt.

Ive met him like 6 times and never felt a spark, but last time i kind of did.

We havent met for a while, and weve kept it as friends but kind of clear he still liked me.

Now hes getting dead close to this other girl, and hes kind of chnaged with me , im meetin him tommorow and this is my last chance to really do or say something :(

I dont know what to do , im not sure if i like him, but im quite upset that he might get with someone else.

[Im not sure if i liek him becuase hes the only boy whos my type that has liked me]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008):

i understand exactly what ur going through and what ur thinking and feeling... well not EXACTLY. but a pretty good gist...

the thing is if you like someone. you know.

u get the tingle and the heart flutters...

when u like someone there is no doubt!

what u feel is either a physical attraction or a emotional connection, neither of which mean ur into him...

although u mite be jealous from losing his affections, u have to think that, this chick he mite date will be able to give him something u cant...

i mean how would u like it if a guy u were really into, just was with u, cause he didnt want u 2 be with anyone else, but didnt really like you!!

when u like someone u definately know... think back on all the lil crushes u have ever had... the anticipation of seeing them.

everyone wants to feel liked and loved. even if ur not into them.., trust me i know!!!!!!!!!!!!!

be strong. ur love will come along. dont settle for less than strong feelings, and dont make them either :)

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A female reader, howcomehoney France +, writes (13 October 2008):

howcomehoney agony auntI don't think you like him. The way you're feeling sounds to me like a jealous reaction. He liked you and that was good - let's face it, it's always nice to have people interested in you. If he gets a girlfriend, then he won't be interested in you any more. That's the only thing going on here, you aren't really interested in him personally.

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A male reader, karlgoo United States +, writes (12 October 2008):

karlgoo agony auntWhy are you not sure? it seems to me that you are only jealous and are not really into this guy.

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