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writes: So, I like this guy and I am positive he likes me too. But we're both really shy and I don't know if I have enough courage to talk to him. By talk to him I mean confront him about my feelings for him. School is just about to start and I don't know what to do!!Also -I'm not ready for a relationship with him. -I'm afraid of what everyone is going to think if people fin out. -I didn't tell anyone about how I feel for him.
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reader, Blod +, writes (21 August 2011):
Slow down.
Just because you like him, it doesn't mean you need to tell him especially if you're not ready to be in a relationship with him. If you're shy around him, then the best thing to do would be to talk to him, as in befriend him, first.
Get to know him better and see how you feel. You might find out that you don't like him as much as you think or that you want a relationship with him.
Like Kyle007 says, tell him you feel when you want a relationship.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (21 August 2011):
If you are not ready for a relationship then this is a moot point. Why tell him your feelings if you don't want a relationship? Do you just want him to have the information and that's it?
When you want a relationship, tell him how you feel.
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