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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can i find the right boy? Boys round here are just players and think they're great! I just want someone who can respect me and give me a good time and just be there for me etc. I've been single for about 3-4 years now and i'm really bored of it.. i don't really know how to come about it though because that wasn't a sexual relationship, i was still a virgin then.. i have only lost my virginity last year. Thanks :)
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reader, IamJess +, writes (15 July 2012):
 Go out and enjoy yourself and love will come to you, is the only answer anyone can really give you, usually love comes looking for you when you least expect it and when you least want it, so be happy for now, they'll come along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2012): It looks like you're looking for something more long term. I suggest you start by thinking what kind of guy you would like to attract. There is no point wanting a charming, confident, well spoken man if you're just hanging out in low rate bars. Likewise, you want a sporty guy? Go to the gym, get involved. Think about it, photographers end up with models, teachers with other teachers, atheletes and their coaches...you get my drift (sorry for the mass stereotyping there!).
Secondly, think about yourself, are you the kind of girl who would attract that kind of person? A guy who is looking for a partner would want that girl to be special too. For example, I have been around the music business a long time, and the girls who offer themselves to the bands are not the kind of girls they go out with. In a way they're almost double standard about it, they choose the smart, strong, talented girls. Beautiful people attract beautiful people (and I mean beautiful internally, not externally). So, if you haven't already, make yourself a catch. For me personally, I have found the easiest way into a mans heart is to talk to him (actually, its to listen to him). If you can have a 'real' conversation with a man, I often find he turns to putty.
Anyway, never settle for second best, you're fairytale will come.
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