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writes:I met this guy at a bar 3 weeks ago. He was wearing the shirt of a band I like and I thought he was hot, so I went over and asked for his name and phone number. He seemed shocked but gave them to me anyway, and asked for mine too. We chatted for a while then I had to go back to my friends so I went to peck him on the lips (drunk....) and he leaned down thinking I was talking so I missed and got his cheek. I went back to my friends, and later that night/early morning I started texting him. He added me on facebook the next day and we spoke every day for 4 days or so. It turns out we have a massive amount in common (movies, books, tv series, likes and dislikes) and he only lives 20 minutes away. He asked me out on a date but never set a time for it.He then went three days without contact. He got back to me afterwards all apologetic saying he was sorry, he'd been busy working. We added each other on snapchat and started talking over that. He told me that he thought I was fun, gorgeous and sexy and sent me a funny snapchat of him dancing. When we talk we get on really, really well and we have a date planned for a week on wednesday (11 days from now). The only thing is, he goes for days at a time without snapchatting or facebooking me. I sometimes wonder if he actually does like me or if he just thinks I'm "easy" because of the kiss. He's a graduate and I'm a fresher, so I didn't know if maybe he thinks I'm too young for him or something :s I think maybe I'm overthinking this but I'd really like to know if other people think that maybe he likes me haha.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 October 2014):
 I'd be surprised if he thought you are easy.. because of a peck on the cheek- it would show that his moral standards are more stringent than it's reasonable for this century:).
He called you fun, gorgeous and sexy, he is corresponding with you , albeit not every day, and he asked you out on a date- this would indicate that he likes you.
Only, so far- reasonably- he likes what he saw. He likes you because you are attractive, but ...you haven't even gone on a first date yet, maybe he does not like-like-like you yet. While I suspect that you are having expectations and already in
" boyfriend " mode, or couple mode. Relax. See what happens. It may be just a flash ( of attraction ) in the pan, or it may be that you really click and it will turn into something more. It's early to say. Go on your date and take it from there.
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