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writes: I have been with me current partner for 2years now. I'm almost 19yrs old. Recently we have been constantly arguing and I don't enjoy spending much time with her. The trouble is, she is really caring and I do love her. I have also met a girl from work and we have instantly made a great connection. I'm not sure how she feels about me but if I was single I wouldnt hesitate in asking her out!What do I do?!?!? Please help, many thanks Confused Barry Reply to this Question
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reader, StarNews +, writes (6 March 2006):
 It all comes down to how much you love your current girlfriend, and value the relationship. This girl at work may seem appealing, and you will be tempted, especially when you are arguing in your current relationship.
You have a choice: to choose the easy way out; leave your current girlfriend and find someone new, or stick it out, because you love her.
It doesnt matter who you are with, there will always be whole new set of problems and disagreements. That is the only way to truly get to know someone, and to learn more about yourself.
So you can keep choosing to run away when things go wrong in a relationship, or open your heart and your mind and learn that life is a challenge, and all about choices. The choices you make affect others, and if you care about your girlfriend's feelings, you will accept the good and bad times, and make the best of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): Hi guys, this is Barry. Thanks for your comments, i think deep down its lost hope but there are many things holding me back. 1) we are meant to be going on a £1500 holiday to egypt in june!2)I owe £800 by direct debits to her birthday and christmas presents 3)i do care about her. Its only since i have met this new girl in work, i dont even know if she likes me but since i met her i havnt felt the same around my gf. When we fight its only little things but there are alot of them, thanks for all your comments again. God knows i need some help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): You guys may be fighting a lot but is it a bunch of little things or is it a big deal? If its about nothing maybe your sexual contact is causing mixed feelings. As far as this new girl at work, if you love your girlfriend, but are attracted to this girl, then its a matter of sacraficing your love, for a chance with someone new?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): Barry, to have been part of a loving relationship at the age of 19 is a fantastic achievement and something to hold dear to you always. That said, my advice to you is don't spoil it. Talk to your girlfriend before you do something that you will definitely regret and tell her how you feel. Breaking up with her will be a lot easier for both of you, than stringing her along and possibly cheating on her. Release both yourself and your girlfriend from this relationship, you both deserve to be with people you love and who love you right back and remenber, just because your girlfriend will no longer be your lover, there is no reason why she cannot always be someone who you care about and think of fondly. Thats love. Good luck.
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reader, ays21 +, writes (19 February 2006):
i think if you don't want to be with her anymore then DON'T leave her hanging on any longer tell her straight relationships r all about trust so i think you should really tell her
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