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writes: There is a guy that I am interested in, who I think could be interested in me. I'm afraid I might be reading too much into his actions. We've had several classes together, and we're sort of friends, but don't know each other really well. Maybe your objective opinion can help. Here are the things I have noticed:He always notices when I walk in the (class) room. Of course, I sit diagonally to him, so he really can't help but notice. Nearly every class, I catch him looking at me. (out of the corner of my eye)He seems to laugh louder at inside jokes that include me. And he glances at me when he laughs. When he says my name his voice seems (notice I said seems) to change. He's always asking to see my notes/papers, and his hand always almost touches mine, but never does.We talk about serious stuff (politics, etc.), but we also laugh a lot.He opens doors for me and seems tickled when I say, "Thank you," but some guys open doors for girls. I called to ask a question about a paper and he returned my call within 15 minutes. He's made it obvious that he is not in any type of relationship right now. He's talked to me about what he wants in the (near) future...a family/ his career path. BUT...He's invited me to study groups, but never asked me out. He's "accidently" walked down the wrong aisle to get to his seat, almost touching me, but never actually touching me.He offered to drive me home from a late night study session, but when I asked if he wanted to come in for a minute, he looked like a deer in the headlights and declined. (I didn't mean anything nefarious, I was just being polite.)He has a few female friends, and I can't tell if he's being friendly or if he is actually interested. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): You've stockpiled the evidence almost obsessively, all that's really left is to:
1) stockpile more evidence
2) repeat
OR
1)Actually ask him if he likes you
2)Get on with your life
There's no need to be coy. Tell him you think he's smart and attractive and you'd love to go out with him sometime.
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