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41-50,
*ymommy
writes:My boyfriend of 4 years has been texting and talking to other girls on the phone. He has pictures of girls on his phone, he says they are just random texts that his friends send him but they are close up pics of girls and their body parts. I know he has never physically cheated on me, he's not that type of person. But the fact that he has these intimate conversations with girls on his phone really bothers me especially when he texts them while I'm sitting right next to him. He says he does it because he wants to know that he is still attractive, he's about to turn 30 I dont know if he's having a midlife crisis or what. I think the only person that he needs to feel attractive to is me and right now he doesn't make me feel very attractive to him. Then he gets mad at me for going into his phone. Which I'm not that type of person that goes through their boyfriend's things unless they give me a reason to and after the first time that gave me the reason. Now I caught him for the 4th time and I just dont understand because if I did it to him he would have kicked my butt to the kerb. We have a 3 year old together and he takes care of my daughter like she was his own, actually he is the only father she has ever known. I love him to death but i can't trust him and I feel numb. Not only after 4 years is he doing this but it makes me wonder how long has he been doing it up until I found out. Need advice, please help.
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reader, kymommy +, writes (14 January 2009):
kymommy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthings got a little better where he was suckig up to me and now they are back to his normalself. i sit in the living room and he goes to the computer room with the door shut doing who knows what. i dont know if i can contiue to be with him.
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reader, kymommy +, writes (14 January 2009):
kymommy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice
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