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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, weve gone thru so many things. thru out the 2 years i found out he had a secret twitter , myspace ect.. and i confronted him and hes admitted to flirting 3 times andi just keep findin things . but he says that im just crazy and he loves me. an weve gone thruu big events together . and i do feel that he loves me ]: but i dont know wAAT to do ; leave, or stay? btw he threatens to kill himself if i leave ]:
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Last sentence basically tells me that you should definitely leave. He has emotional issues. I agree with NICK, get him some help and go far away from him. You can't be with someone who has that emotional issue. It won't only affect him but your relationship as well.
Goodluck! i hope this helps!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Yep, time to leave. If he's not keeping things from you, he's emotionally blackmailing you. You two going through big things together means nothing, him telling you he loves you but you're crazy is a bit suspicious, and he threatens to kill himself if you leave. That's all the information you need to leave.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Hmmm... my advice would have to be leave. And only by reading that last sentence.If he is serious about killing himself, then find him some help, and get far away. If he's willing to do harm to himself, then he could just as easily do harm to someone else.My guess though, is he's just threatening you with that. It seems to me just about everyone has a relationship sometime in their lives where someone threatens suicide if you leave. My last ex did it, i still went through with the break up, and she's still alive. My current gf's ex did it, she told him if he wanted to kill himself over a stupid b**** like her then go ahead.He's still alive.My point is, if he's threatening you with it now, then the longer you spend with him (whether he's faking or not) then the more reason he's going to have to kill himself later.Like i said, he's threating YOU with it. not him. Any decent person would feel guilty if their actions resulted in anothers death, and thats what he's banking on. He's using it as a trap.Now... if i read the rest of the question. It looks to me like he's hiding more than just social networking, and could be doing more than flirting. I dont know for sure, but it seems that way with what you've said.I say leave. if you need anymore help, just ask. hope all goes well.nick
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