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I didn't used to like him but since my friend started to like him then I like him too.

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Question - (13 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *oung mummy writes:

help help help!!! my boyfriend doesn't like me talking to his mates especially this one paticular mate. I tell my boyfriend over and over again I do not find him actractive which was true, then an old mate of mine started seeing him. The thing is I really didn't like him at all, but now I do! My mate talks about sex with him and it sounds great! what the hell should I do!!!!!!

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe,

I suggest you dont do anythin.. They are together now, and most of all you have a boyfriend.. If things arent as good as you want with your current boyfriend, dont stay with him as he will be under the wrong impression..

I hope i helped =)

Mail me if you would like to talk x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007):

Do nothing. The grass always looks greener on the other side. You have three people's relationships in your hands and all this could blow up in your face. Try this, re energize your current relationship and quit looking elsewhere.

regards

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A female reader, LISAG +, writes (13 July 2007):

LISAG agony auntHuman nature is strange. I have read in psychology books (touching on evolution in particular) that if other females express attractiveness to a male, he becomes more attractive to other females just because everyone else seems to like him. Since reading this, I have often only noticed some guys after my female counterparts have started ranting on about how sexy he is. It's almost like a competition thing or as if I didn#t notice before and now it's been pointed out to me I see the attraction ! Weird !

Altho saying that, I still fancy the men I fancy first off more without anyone swaying my judgement !

I'd tend to agree with a comment above, steer clear if she's a friend. Friends are more important than guys who can come and go when you're young! Friends will be there for life and they are as essential as family!

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (13 July 2007):

O Connor agony auntu might just be getting a bit confused now that your friend is seeing this guy. its not him you like its their relationship,how long have you been with your boyfriend?if she is telling all these stories about their sex life then you may just be missing that new exciting honeymoon period of your relationship. just remember that wat you have now is alot more important and you now in love with this guy. its normal to feel attracted to others just dont act on it!be happy for them and appreciate the place that you are in hope this helps darling get back to me if you need more advice xx

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntHi hun,

Your friend is with this guy now so to be honest hun, stay well away you wouldn't like it if your friend went off with your boyfriend would you???

Your probably only interested because your mate has been telling you great stories about him and it seems exciting,

Also your boyfriend knows his mate well maybe he is bit of a player and that is why he doesn't want you talking to him incase he tries it on with you, so take your boyfriends advise on this one babes....

Hope I have helped you in some way take care babes and love the one you have I am sure you don't want to break his heart,

Love Donna xx

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