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writes:My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me last week. We had a really strong relationship and were deeply in love. We used to have one problem, and that was she would always fall asleep on the phone so i got mad at her like once a week because I couldn't keep a conversation with her past 5 minutes. I didn't know I was hurting her so much. She broke up with me without even telling me in advance that she needed some room or that I was doing anything wrong, she used to agree she was wrong when she fell asleep. I didn't know, I would never hurt her that much on purpose. She said that I ruined her life and changed her so much she doesnt even know who she is anymore. She says "i still love and care about you I just need space", but when I talk to her now she is really mean. When I'm crying on the phone begging for forgiveness she just says "sorry". She used to get upset when I was begging but she doesn't care anymore and it just annoys her..Now I know after pestering her this past week that the best thing to do is just leave her alone. Is it too late now? What can I do...I love her so much and didn't mean for any of this to happen :(
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reader, meltedfire13 +, writes (13 January 2010):
i had a boyfriend that would get mad at me for falling asleep all the time. once he even kicked me out of his house for it, but im hoping you didnt do anything that extreme. did you get mad at her for other things too? you should definitely leave her alone. with my ex he was so protective and got mad so much it eventually made me hate him. he would beg and cry for me to take him back and i just hated him more. im not sure if she feels the same, but if its at the point where she sounds annoyed you should give her space.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 January 2010):
Yes she could have been an adult and talked to you about it but she chose not to and now she's let her feelings die.
Yes you yelled at her but she was at fault too for not talking to you or being honest about how she was feeling.
Just leave her alone. She may forgive you with time but it's not going to help if you keep pestering her.
If she wants to meet up and talk about things then you may have a chance. But if you don't hear from her in a couple of weeks then move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 January 2010):
Let her go. She has said it's over.
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