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writes: Are my "Crushes" something to worry about? I've been with my boyfriend for over two years and I love him more than anyone but lately I've been daydreaming about other guys, in particular, a guy from college. I only know him to see, I don't even know his name, but I can't stop thinking about him. I constantly imagine what it would be like to sleep with him. But I really don't want to sleep with him, I love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him. Should I be worried or is it natural to have these thots? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 These are normal feelings. That is what makes us tick as humans. The fact that we stay loyal to our mates is what makes us morally good. There are certain components that attract us to others. We need these in order for the species to continue. They don't go away when you're in a relationship but we're supposed to control them. It's just the way we're wired. There will always be somebody better looking around the corner. If we always chaased that we'd never settle. The substance of a good relationship is what keeps us bonded with our mates.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 Crushes are fine as is day dreaming about lovely blokes they are what keep us sane, but leave it at that unless you want your relationship to end, then end it first before persuing other blokes.
What goes on in the privacy of our own heads is fine and as i said keep on day dreaming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): i have that same problem except i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and i use to wonder about his friend. i have tryed to push it a side trying no to think about him and spend more time with my bf wether it be on phone to him or with him.
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