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*illybean234
writes:My boyfriend and I are both 15. We have had sex once before. (Please dont post anything saying im to young,im being very responsible and i love him and know what im doing) The bad thing is that tonight, we were going to do it again but he couldnt get hard rigt before we were going to. Was it because we were fooling around too much before earlier in the day? This is not the only time this has happened. He gets very frustrated and does not understand why he cant get a hard on when he was basically hard all day. Im kind of worried. Help please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): you have absolutly nothing to worry about it happened with my ex once n he got really stressed thinkin about it and it made it worse! When the pressure was taken off n we jus lay back n relaxed for abit n then i jus started running one finger up n down his chest n jus stareted to do it lower n lower unitl i was just giving him a handjob and then he got hard no problem. He later admitted to me it was because he was nervous ( it was one of the first times we slept together ) so next time just dont rush it and take your time and build up to it! And if anyone does judge you about having sex at 15 its their problem its noones buisness but your own when you do have sex.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (11 January 2009):
it may be that he thinks he is ready for a sexual relationship, but really he isn;t. he may be nervous and worried about it. it sounds like a physcological thing. maybe hold off from the sex if it happens again or spend more time with just foreplay and fooling around. he may just need to feel more relaxed. don't make him feel pressured into having sex if he does not really want to. if he keeps having problems get him to talk to an older brother or his dad and get him to see a doctor.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 No, this seems to be a psychological problem. How long has it been happening? It could very well be he's thinking of somthing, he could be nervous about somthing else in the relationship. But I'd start by seeing a doctor. There should be some tests he can do.
How often does he masterbate? It could be a problem if he does it far to often but still it's a good thing to do because it helps build the labido and penis strengh. I also reduces some forms of cancer.
Anyway... Just see a doctor as soon as possible the earlier he has this looked at the better.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Actually, age might be part of the reason. Not being too young to know what you are doing, but your bodies not being ready to handle it yet. I don't know about you but being a guy at 15 means you have a hard on most of the time with no control over it. Of course I don't know how active he has been sexually before you. And I don't know if by "fooling around" you mean you made him ejaculate alot earlier. Because if thats the case then he just cant go anymore. Whatever you do, dont pressure him cuz it would only make it worse. Just try again later but dont force it. Try to let him start it. If it keeps happening then maybe he should consider a doctor visit.
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