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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm going out with my bestfriend's exboyfriend. i know that's bad enough. we've been casually having something for nearly a year but he never wanted to make it official. About a month before he asks me to be his girlfriend i had something with someone else for about a 3 weeks and it didn't mean much. Now that we're officially together he's constantly thinking i'm lying to him and that i'm cheating on him because of what i did in the past. he's also a heavy pot smoker which doesn't make it any better. i've tried everything to prove to him that he's the only one i want to be with but nothing seems to be working. if i'm home alone he thinks there's someone over at my house. its gotten real bad but i still want to make things work. HELP! What can i do to keep him? He keeps on threatening to break up with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, pinkkisses24  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 I feel this relationship has already started off rocky because he is your "best friends ex". Also, you said above that you both have been having something for over a year. If a guy really wants to be with you and make you his official woman he would have made it official a year ago. No offense but you stated that he is also a heavy pot smoker and he feels you are cheating on him. If you know you are not cheating on him, if he feels this way either because he is insecure or he is cheating on you. Your age 18-21 you have so much time to find someone who does NOT smoke pot heavily, someone who will make you his woman ASAP and feel security in the relationship. You can do ALOT better!Good luck!
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