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writes:I have had a very casual friends with benefits thing with this guy. Well I have been on birth control so I wasnt worried about getting pregnant. I thought my cycle was off and that would start any day and I havent. I dont know if I should just wait and see or if I should take a pregnancy test now? I dont want to sound like a bad person but I dont want another kid so soon. My daughter just turned a year old. Should I tell this guy or leave him in the dark? I was with this guy before I met my boyfriend. I know some of ya'll might say well it could be your boyfriend's baby but thats not possible because we havent had sex yet. Im not sure if I should mention this to him or what. He is allot older than I am so he could be understanding or he could break up with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI took a test and it came out positive. Now that guy wont speak to me, and I havent told my boyfriend yet.
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (19 November 2008):
First thing you need to do is go take a test, this will stop you from worrying. It will also stop you from telling your new boyfriend about something thats not even there.
If you are pregnant then only you can decide if you want to keep the baby. and if you decide you dont then again only you can decide if you want to tell your boyfriend.
These are alot of very hard decisions to make and if you take the wrong advice then you will regret it forever so make sure you are clear about what you want to do.
Fingers crossed for you that this is not the case though.
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