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writes: I like to have my home clean and organizied even when there isnt anyone coming to visit. I cook do laundry vaccum dust, clean two bathrooms,groceries.I fold my own clothing and put them away in the draws.I do so much I forget about my self.at night when the kids are asleep and there is time for me and my girlfriend she dosent make any advances to me or show me she is attracted to me. its like she dosent find sex with me interesting.when I sit and tell her about her being cold and always falling asleep before I come out the shower. Then we will be happy for two or three days after that back to her normal self. If I tell her im shopping around for a car she will tell me ,you get a car and we are going to have a problem.is this woman with me because im very helpful to the home and kids.maybe I am not right for her. I believe im a good man and father but what can i do if the woman I love is attracted part time.im 5Ft 9 Stocky curly hair with a great sence of humor. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 May 2011):
"You get a car, and we are doing to have a problem"
That says it all really. I think you're exactly right - she seems to be with you because you're a good guy who helps out. You're a bit like an ATM machine to her really. She seems to be pretty controlling, just from that statement about the car, and I suggest you think about whether you want to be with a woman like this.
I would imagine there are a lot of other women who would really appreciate a guy like you - maybe you should try to find one of them.
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