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anonymous
writes:i'm the guy who wrote regarding my girlfriend wanting to stop seeing me for a week even though see still loves and cares for me. she said she doesn't feel good arond me at the moment that it doesn't feel right that shes not happy.i don't understand cause two days ago she was texting saying how speical i was and how she loves me.
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reader, x-lana-x +, writes (11 March 2007):
 hi, i'm sure your girlfriend just needs some space.. as some people do in a relatinship, leave her to cool of for a while, and if it is still going on then try asking her whats wrong, or think back, perhaps you have said or done something worng.. though you may not have known it at the time. and if its not you, or something personal thats borthering her, then maybee she isnt the right girl for you, if she cant trust you enogh to tell you upfront. good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 It sounds like she is suffering from wonder lust. She's wondering what she's missing in her life. She may be feeling smothered by you too. Give her some room and let her figure out what it is she wants in life.
If you stay in her face, she might grow to resent you. Give her time. In the mean time, do your own thing and enjoy yourself.
Good luck!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 This doesnt make any sence at all i think she is playing games with you, blowing hot and cold. I think you should call her bluff tell her you think its a great idea that you could also do with the space to maybe you could say why dont we say two weeks or a month. I know that will be hard to do as you really care for her but you cant be treated like this.
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reader, aunty t +, writes (10 March 2007):
This doesnt make any sence at all i think she is playing games with you, blowing hot and cold. I think you should call her bluff tell her you think its a great idea that you could also do with the space to maybe you could say why dont we say two weeks or a month. I know that will be hard to do as you really care for her but you cant be treated like this.
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (10 March 2007):
 Why has she got to say how long she wants to stop seeing eachother for? I think I replyed to you last time, it sounds like she is maybe looking for another relationship but keeping yo close so that if things dont work out for her then she has you to fall back on (DOOR MAT)
Get rid,I know you love her but you can do soooooooooo much better and desearve to be loved back.
I would do it know so you can make a fresh start flower ok? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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