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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I got a crush on this guy at work and there is some kind of chemistry between us.. which is pretty much visible i guess since one of my coworker asked me discreetly if we had something going on. We are always joking, teasing each other and laughing.. sometimes we get a bit touchy feely. We often go for a coffee/drink after work. Though i am an average looking girl i guess, while we walk on the streets, i find men checking me out. He usually looks at me to watch my reaction but i just walk straight without glancing at people. We once went to this pub after work where he met his friends (only guys) and had a few drinks.. When he is with his friends, he's mostly involved with them but checks on me from time to time. Then a pretty girl passed by and his friends and himself just turned to check her out and catcall the girl. I guess they were tipsy. He usually does not act like that in my presence.. He looks at girls discreetly.. which is like fine to me.. But now i'm wondering whether he likes (if he did, he wouldnt stare at girl openly in my presence) or he considers me just a friend?
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reader, superbunny  +, writes (6 September 2009):
 As a male, and this is by no means derogatory to the male gender, they notice attractive girls. One of my male friends tried to explain this to me - he was saying he notices attractive girls even though he is in an extremely loving, trusting relationship. It doesn't mean he fancies them or wants to be with them, it just means, I guess, he finds it a nice view! I'd assume the catcall was just lads being lads and not to take it too to heart.It sounds - although of course I can be no way certain - that you guys have chemistry and that will be worth WAAAY more to him than just a nice set of a legs in a bar! Try not to read too much into the chemistry if something doesn't unfold naturally - I know we girls have a habit of doing that from time to time : (I hope it works out well for you sweetie. : ) x
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