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writes: Dear cupid. I'm 13 and I was straddling one of my friends and he's 18 and we were making out and doing well you know and I didn't know it but my brother was outside my window watching us. And he's told my ex, also his best friend. His ex also my best friend's sis and my best friend and she told her Mom and I'm scared to death that her mom is guna tell my mom, or my brother will tell my parents. I mean, if they tell I'll be grounded from every thing imaginable and he'll get 6 years in Jail. I don't know what to do. My brother had told us as long as I don't see him again then he won't tell my parents. And I'm just dying to see him but I don't know what to do. Should I risk the chance and see him again or just never see him again at all? Please help me, I really don't know what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): good question definately a puzzler! If you love this guy then you should have a right to see him but as you quite rightly said he could be put in prison. But you do what you think is right ! Follow you heart it'll lead you to the right place maybe this guy isn't the right person and you'll find another kick ass guy that can make out just as good as this guy but do what you wont !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2005): I think that you should have your parents' trust. And to have that, you must sacrifice the guy you were making out with and everything else. I think your parents' trust is more important in this situation.
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reader, cordy14 +, writes (9 July 2005):
I know when you are 13 an older man feels exciting and I'm sure that you feel like an adult yourself. But honestly 13 is too young to be putting yourself through the stress of this type of relationship. If you have read the other problems on this site you will know that there are numerous pitfalls involved in relationships.Please don't see him again as you could end up in serious trouble and not just from your parents. I don't want to lecture you but I hope that you are aware of the risks of pregnancy and sexually transmitted illnesses. There is also the risk that this man is just taking advantage of you and all he wants is sex.If he is really interested in you then he would be willing to wait until you are older. After all you don't want to be encourage him to commit an offense that will put him in prison.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (9 July 2005):
I dont think you should see this boy again, he is too old for you. If your mum finds out, tell her you are not seeing him again.
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