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writes:Basically,, Me and my ex where together for just over a year, we're only 15 but we were in love. I don't care if people say we were too young becasue we weren't! We were talking about having sex, but we both took it very seriously and decided to wait! Then suddenly out of the blue last week he says he doesn't think we should go out anymore..:S It has confused me so much! I practically haven't stopped crying since then and have no idea what to so!! I've tried talking to him and that didn't work! The other day he was fine with me though .. what do I do..? I just can't get over him!
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (22 November 2007):
 When I was your age I thought I was in love too. It feels so strong at the time and the hurt is horrible, but you're still young and there's so much for you to live for! I'm only 20 and I still consider myself a kid. Boys in general are immature, but at 15 no boy wants to be tied down, and neither should you! Enjoy yourself, go to party's, spend time with your friends, flirt a little, just enjoy being young and single! You'll soon come to realise that being in a long term relationship is not the best thing for someone your age, and when you get to ripe old 20 you'll realise that you're better off this happening!
Dress up nice, make yourself gorgeous, and let him know what he's missing! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): 15 isn't necessarily too young to be in love, but it is too young to really be able to handle it like you should.
Most people that age think they're in love, and then then look back in a few years and realize they had no idea what real love was. The few people who still think they were in love at 15 usually think they were too young to handle it even though it was real.
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear you're hurting like this. :( Please know that I'm praying for you.
Breaking up is always difficult, especially when you can't figure out why it happened. I hate to say it, but guys your age are perpetually immature and ridiculous, for the most part. I have a younger sister your age and she's going through something similar to you. Talking to him will probably accomplish nothing. Maybe he simply realized that the two of you had been together for over a year, and decided it was time for him to see other people. Maybe he'll come back to you, maybe he won't.
In the meantime, you've been given the gift of single status! Although you may not view it as a gift just yet, you will with time. Take advantage! You're still young! Spend some quality time with your girl friends and find a really great guy to become friends with and see where it goes!
Best of luck!
-Jules
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reader, meangirl101  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 i was in this situation once to so i know how your feeling right now...first think about maybe he has felt a different way for sometime and couldn't tel you or maybe he jus got scared and didn't know how to handle it. thats wat my man was and he broke up with me out of the blue...you jus need to try to talk to him some how. tell him how you feel or right him a letter and tell him everything...if you need to talk jus send me a private message
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