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I can't seem to orgasm - is there something wrong with me?!

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Question - (8 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am sixteen years old. My boyfriend and I have had sex over sixty times, and I've never orgasmed once!

Sometimes it feels better then other times.. but I can never actually GET there.

Is something wrong with me!?

I need tips.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

60 times?! Bloody hell...

Ermm its possibly due to your age. I'm not saying your too young to be having sex coz, your over the legal age limit and I'm not saying that at all. I'm just saying that it might be because your young...

Experiment a bit in your sex life, try different things...

It also depends about how you feel about your boyfriend. Like how much you like him and stuff. Stress from work, school, family life whatever can also play a part I would've thought.

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A female reader, SuperSammie United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2008):

SuperSammie agony aunthi there.

i am 17 and was in a realtionship with my ex for two years.

every time we had sex i almost never had an orgasm, yeah sure it felt good, but i never actually had an orgasm or 'came'.

he said he really enjoyed sex and it was great for him. but i never was able to tell him that i was having an orgasm, so sometimes i'd fake it.

but since i have been with my new boyfriend he has made m 'cum' and have multiple orgasms. but i have learnt now that if you want the best from your sex like that you should tell your boyfriend what is good/bad and tell him what you like/dislike.

this way you and your boyfriend are giving and recieving the best pleasure.

there's nothing wrong with you if you can't have an orgasm or 'cum'.

it just might mean yyour boyfriend isn't hitting your G-spot.

if this is the case, i think you should talk to him about it, if he gets uset tell him its nothing to be embarresed about, that tyou both should just try different positions and play around a bit.

If you don't want to tell him that you'r not having an orgasm, just move your pelvis around while he is on top of you, he will probably just think you're going with the flow but by moving or holding your pelvis up a bit untill he starts hitting your G-sot, then you will both learn how to find your G-spot.

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