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writes:hi.i need some advice.there is this guy i m in luv with and he loves me too..i recently told him that i wud be visiting his town soon,and he said..i wanna tell u that i m not gonna be there...cuz i dont want to meet u...i was shocked and said "of course i understand if u have other commitments" and didnt show that the thing he said had affected me in any way and he said he had to go and said bye n everything..this was 3 days ago..i havent contacted him in any way since then..but a day ago my friend told me..he was just kidding..(he is a common friend)..i wasnt shocked..i had thought is as a joke..but what if it wasnt?does he really not want to meet me??what do u say about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi.
thx all of u for answers..well he called me up and said that ,i quote.."u know me,i know u..thats wat matters.such stupid trivial fights shouldnt happen between us..when u come..u know that no matter how many people are there around us,i have eyes only for you..when have u ever felt that i dont care..or that i dont want to meet u??this time also..we'll make many memories worth cherishing"
wasnt it sweet??
thanks again all of u for answers..i really appreciate it
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 August 2008):
If he was joking then he should have made that clear when you said "yes I understand"
If I were you I would cut contact for a while and let him make it up to you. If he doesn't, then he might not love you as much as he says he does.
Go out and have fun in the real world away from the computer, and stop thinking about him for a while.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): If he was joking, it was a very unfunny joke.
I'd stand back from this guy if I were you and let him stew for a while. If he gets back in touch and says he was joking tell him you didn't find his 'joke' the least bit amusing, and if he's got any other 'jokes' like that he'd do well to keep them to himself. I'd also be expecting an apology.
Meanwhile I'd get on with my life and put him to the back of my mind.
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (8 August 2008):
 hi there.
just text him casualy saying somthing like 'hi, just wondering if you do wanna meet wen i'm in your town? cause im gonna have a few hours/days to spend doing whatever, so wanna meet and do something? if not i understand'
if he still says no ask why, if he still says he doesn't want to see you, ask why.
if he is saying he wont be there just cause he doesn't want to see you, then it sounds like he might be using you and doesn't love you at all.
hope this helps. x
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