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I can't look at him when I'm talking to him

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Question - (5 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well....

I have this problem through.

Well its better to tell the story first.

Okay anyway it been like this for days and well months. There is this boy I liked, he is also my friend. We talked happly about a month until some hormonal emotions ran through me. Now when ever we talk I keep looking on the ground or away from him. I know he expected something about now.

Okay I need some advice.

How can I talk to him without having a thought of looking away? X-X

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntJust try to glance up at him, to let him know that you're engaged and into him. Make effort to look into his face, but there's no need to stare him down. Just try your hardest to look up at him and give him some face time!! You'll get used to it and as you get closer to him, you'll get more comfortable and eye contact will be no problem.

Good luck, sweetness!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntGive the command to your brain to tell your eyes to look at his eyes when speaking to him.Tell you brain that.

Initially , it may feel awkward but after sometime ,it will become natural.

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A female reader, mummyter Canada +, writes (5 May 2010):

mummyter agony auntTry to picture him as just your friend, even though you have those feelings for him. Remember that boys find eye contact sexy! That's how you flirt. You dont look away to flirt, you look straight at the boy and search his eyes for your answer! If you want him to want you then you need to allow him to see your face. Nobody can fall in love with the back of someone's head.

If all else fails try sitting a little farther away for awhile.

good luck! 3

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