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writes:hey my girlfriend and i have been together for 1yr and 4 months and about a month ago now she asked for space it killed me that she wanted it i thought everything was good. within the one month she only spoke to me a couple of times but now she dosent even text or call i know she has a bit of family drama happening in her life atm but she tells me we will be together in time she tells me she loves and misses me like crazy but this was a week ago now i haven't heard from her since this is driving me crazy dunno if i should wait and be there for her with this hard time or let go and move on as much as i want to be with her i cant put my life on hold what should i do help please thanks james
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 It's hard I know.
But maybe leave it for one more week, then send her a smiley face, and a kiss to let her know you are stil thinking about her, but not putting pressue on her. Then leave it again for a week, then if you hear nothing , text her and ask her directly if she no longer wants the relationship? and if so can she let you know ? - she cannto keep you wiaitng and waiting.. it;s not right
you need to know so you can move on. let us know what happens. and all the best xx
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reader, xxmissyxx  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 what kind of family drama ..? i think u shud ask her.. wats on her mind.. if i was in a scary family situation i wud probably want to tell my boyfriend.. its a week now.. so i think it wudnt be wrong.. if you love her that is and u want to continue.. if u think u dont love her move on..
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reader, Black diamond20  +, writes (12 August 2010):
She met someone new it obvious it was to easy for her to break up with you shes telling you what you want to hear so that she can put u on hold in case her new fling doesnt work out give it another month if she doesnt step up to the plate move try not to call her neither let her miss you and i promise you she will be running back. Go out more often than you use to so you can clear your mind from her dont be noone pet.give her the space she ask for and i mean give her space sometimes ppl break up so that can have an excuse to do things so when you say y u did that they can say its like not we were togethe think about it?.ps good luck
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