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writes: My gf broke up with me 2 months ago. I still love her. I have been through this a thousand times. Why does this one hurt so bad. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): It hurts because you were in love with her or perhaps, if you hadnt been together that long it hurts when reasons are not given for the break up.
Lets face it, none of us like to fail in a relationship especially when we are so fond of the other half, but times change and people change, I would need to know more to make more accurate oppinions.
All that you can do to come to terms with the break up is spend alot of time with yourself, think about the good times and then the bad and think of all the things to bare in mind when you meet someone new. Could you have prevented this break up?
I think cupid helper is absolutely right and maybe you wear your heart on your sleeve a little to often. Some of our relationships and feelings in life are just there as lessons...we all get hurt and overcoming it makes us stronger emotionally and more aware of other peoples needs aswell as our own.
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reader, cupidhelper +, writes (25 September 2007):
Caused you loved her. did you give her cause to break-up, did she give reason, can't really advise without more info.
also, a thousand times is a lot. Maybe you shouldn't give your love away so easily. but, again, I don't how long you went out.
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