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writes:Okay.. i have been in this relationship for four year. I can't get away I really dont know what to do I have tried everything he brings out the worst in me. i am not a mean person at all. everytime i am around him i hate myself and the way i act i am so mean to him i feel horrible but its the only way he will leave me alone. i cant tell if he is completely in love with me or he just doesnt want to loose me cuz he will get bored and lonely. He left all his friends and now hates when i go hang out with my friends he calls me the whole time i am gone and accuses me of cheating or being with another guy. I love him i just cant handle it anymore i wanna be my own person and do what i want when i feel like it. i am scared of course to leave him cuz of certain reasons of family and being alone but i know its not good for me and definetly not for him he deserves better i just feel like complete shit the whole time. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
You need to end it. It's better in the long run than being with a guy who is clearly very controlling and insecure. End it for your own sake. I know you'll feel alone, and there are problems. But your boyfriend is just adding to your problems at a time when you need to focus on your own life.
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (31 December 2009):
 Well he's given up all his friends, so you still go out with yours? does he have reason to be suspicious of you cheating on him? basically it sounds like he's fallen into a slump of bitterness, he has trust issues, you havent really provided a whole lot of info, have you ever lied to him! sounds to me like you to need to sit down and figure some shit out, did you make him get rid of his friends? give us a little more info?
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