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Help I've made a bit of a mess of things with bf and his cousin!

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Question - (4 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *achhbabes writes:

well eight months ago i met this boy. i'm 14 and he'd just turned 17 and we really got to like eachother. one day he kissed me and everything was great. i also talk to his cousin on msn, and his cousin told me that the boy i liked had a girlfriend. i was really confused wether he was telling the truth, but i rang him up and it turned out he did.

a few weeks later, he broke up with his girlfriend and we were on the phone every night for two hours. but like a month later it all started to change and it was going down to once a week, and the conversations werent flowing so well. i started to feel really unwanted and unloved.

as i said, i talk to his cousin on msn and one day his cousin told me he likes me. stupid as i was, i told him i like him back, mainly because i felt like i wasnt getting enough attention from the other one.

i suppose i couldnt really trust either of them, as he told his cousin that i'd said i liked him and everything, and now, the one that i really did like, and i really still do, hardly talks to me anymore. he's always talking about me behind my back when i'm around him and laughing. he's started talking to me a little bit now but i'm still not sure how to patch things up.

i know i was stupid.

sorry its long.

p.s i've already posted this question, but that was before i had this account, i did it without one, so i'm doing it again on my account.

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A female reader, Misti Hdz United States +, writes (4 May 2008):

Misti Hdz agony auntyou should definately be careful about what you say. words travels faster than light if you know what I mean, but just be honest with him, and also let him know that you don't like him talking about you behind your back. If he still wants to be mad at you and still wants to talk about you than you don't need him anyway.

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A female reader, WiccanWonder United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2008):

WiccanWonder agony auntAs i said before on your previous post, tell you boyfriend that what you said to his cousin was cruel, and you were just upset...

I hope this helps

good luck

love and hugs

Tasha x

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