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writes: How do I build back up the friendship?I'm in a bit of a difficult situation. I got involved with an engaged man but it has been over for 4 mths due to working together and the difficulties it brings. I am really missing his friendship since we barely talk anymore. I can't handle seeing him all the time and not being able to have a giggle because of gossips. It's hurting me knowing I cant just have a hug. What do i do?
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (22 August 2005):
Hey, sweetpea! Like the name. I'm not sure I get your message clear, so I'm assuming when you said 'got involved' you mean got physical with him, so if I'm wrong this won't be much help. Even if you didn't, you can't be dependent on a friend, lover, or family member for happiness. Truth is, you can't rely on anyone but yourself. You know just by having made it this far in life that people have let you down. I know it hurts much worse if you love someone who leaves you behind. It's a good thing there are lots of good people in the world, and I know you'll find more friends. Don't tear your heart open over this.
"All that you need is in your soul" - Lynyrd Skynyrd
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2005): Why would you want to go and ruin someone elses relationship for your own happiness, that is quite selfish. If you really like him, you should be happy for him and let him be happy with his fiance.
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