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writes:my wife no longer enjoys intercourse with me because i can no longer satisfy her.i am getting older and started taking medication.my penis is no longer big enough to satisfy her .we both like other forms of sex but she still needs intercourse once in a while.would a life like silicon dido help take the place of the real thing Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Many medications, for example high blood pressure medications, can affect the strength and size of an erection, as does age. Check things out with your physician. You may be a candiate for ED medication. The most important thing is to use it! Practice whenever the notion takes your fancy. Don't worry about finishing or stopping in the middle. Most women aren't satisfied by penis alone, so it's probably something that you worry about more than she does. Your wife wants to sleep with you, not just your penis, so introducing sex toys is probably a nice addition. There are plenty of web sites out there that package and send things discreetly by mail.
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reader, Gemini1506  +, writes (7 September 2007):
I say try new positions... or role plays to spice things up. But talk to her and see what she likes. If not i'm sure a sex therapist can help you
Best of luck
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reader, duce00 +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Sorry to hear about your troubles. They are not uncommon as Im sure you know.
First off, you didnt say erectile dysfunction, you mentioned size. I got a little confused because if you are getting erections but the meds make you smaller then its a slightly different ball of wax. Either way you should talk to your doc. You should also talk to your wife a little more.
Maybe you can get a script for Viagra or Levitra, they are supposed to do wonders. If that isnt an option then sure, try the dildo idea.
If you are taking blood pressure meds then maybe you can work on lowering it to a point of not needing it any more. The healthy living and exercise solution. You didnt state the meds you are taking so Im just guessing here.
Feel free to drop me a line, I have a couple other ideas but I dont quite know enough info.
Stay in touch,
Duce
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reader, Sandman +, writes (7 September 2007):
 NOTHING can (or should) take the place of actual intercourse between a man and his wife. There are other things happening when having sex like the emotional connection felt between the two when making love. Looking into each others eyes when you're thrusting. The sweat, the rush, the emotions! So NO, a dildo (at least in my opinion) won't help - at least long term.Short term, maybe. It gives you chance to continue to satisfy your wife while figuring out what is causing your problems and how to correct them. If it's a matter of losing your erections, you might want to consult your physician to make sure there aren't any medical issues causing the loss of erections (and in most cases, these issues are treatable and managable). Or it could just be age, like you said. In which case, asking your doctor is Viagra or Cialis or any type of those drugs might be beneficial (of course, you STILL need to see your doctor for a check to make sure the problem isn't medical). These drugs are designed to increase blood flow to the penis to allow the man to have a stronger, firmer, longer lasting erection so that he may continue to bring his wife pleasure.There are penis pumps. They draw blood into the penis and the blood is then "trapped" in the penis by use of a "cock ring" to keep the blood in the penis during sex. There are many articles/blogs/websites for/against the use of penis pumps so you will need to do your own research to decide if this option is right for you.And remember, you've still got your tongue :)Hope this helps!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 September 2007):
 There is nothing like the real thing in my opinion. Are you taking any of the ED medications? They work really well.
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