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I broke up with him, but he can't accept it! Do I just ignore him? Any suggestions?

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Question - (10 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Iv just finished with my lover about a month ago because it wasn't going anywhere and we wanted different things in life and for some bizarre reason he wont accept it.He keeps txting me and asking when we can meet up again and have a coffee? or he asks if i would like to go out for a run with him etc.What is he playing at? Iv made it very clear to him that its over and he stll acts as if nothing has happened.What do i do? just ignore him?The man isn't a school kid,he's in his 40's so he should get the message.Im feeling worn down with him and even though i still have feelings for him,i know the break up is for the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006):

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Ha ha ha! that is funny if i wasn't scared of flying.Trouble is i have told him all this but he thinks im just having a bad mood swing....i didn't really want to chang numbers.

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A female reader, Dawnest +, writes (10 November 2006):

Rejection is the most bitter sweet sensation in the world and when it happens to you, all you can think of is getting that persn back on your side and into your life.

Meet him on neutral ground to 'talk" but invite a friend to join in as witness because you will have to be cruel to be kind and explain in words of one syllable why the relationship was going nowhere;why it has to end; and most importantly, that he didnt make you happy towards the end so goodbye,au revoir, adieu. he will get angry but he will accept it after that because his anger will take over and help him move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

change your number and avoid any possibility of bumping into him if that does not work leave the country we hear spain is nice!!!!

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