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writes:i met the most amazing guy. everything i could hope for and more..we kissed last weekend, after talking all night, but now he tells me that hes been talking non stop with a girl for months , and they wanted to get together for ages but it just went ahead on the other day... they arnt official but will be within days i assume. his friends think shes a slut.. but shes pretty and smart and interested in the same things he is. Im pretty, smart, have a good reputation in general , and have an extensive knowledge and a lot of connections regarding what he is into... i do live far away.. a good 3 hours.. but i like him a lot.. we get on great and ive never met a guy like him.. is it fair that this slag is getting with him and without a doubt is going to hurt him?? should i try get him back??? any advice or opinians would be greatThank you , Kelly.x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Dear, if you like him, then go ahead and see if you can date him. But as far as trying to get'him back', it sounds like you never had him in the first place. Talking all night and kissing doesn't really make you both 'an official couple' does it. Dear, this guy is doing what a lot of young people do...he's just playing the field and getting out there and dating the person who seem the most suited to him. If this girl is compatible to him, then you may have no choice but to let this guy go and do what he wants. And that is...dating her. But if they aren't an official couple yet, then you can always try. Good luck
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